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In the first book to respond to the Supreme Court's decision on same-sex marriage, Ryan Anderson draws on the best philosophy and social science to explain what marriage is, why it matters for public policy, and the consequences of its legal redefinition.
Attacks on religious liberty--predicated on the bogus equation of opposition to same-sex marriage with racism--have already begun, and modest efforts in Indiana and other states to protect believers' rights have met with hysterics from media and corporate elites. Anderson tells the stories of innocent citizens who have been coerced and penalized by the government and offers a strategy to protect the natural right of religious liberty.
Anderson reports on the latest research on same-sex parenting, filling it out with the testimony of children raised by gays and lesbians. He closes with a comprehensive roadmap on how to rebuild a culture of marriage, with work to be done by everyone.
The nation's leading defender of marriage in the media and on university campuses, Ryan Anderson has produced the must-read manual on where to go from here. There are reasonable and compelling arguments for the truth about marriage, but too many of our neighbors haven't heard them. Truth is never on "the wrong side of history," but we have to make the case. We will decide which side of history we are on.
- Print length256 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherRegnery
- Publication dateAugust 31, 2015
- Dimensions6 x 0.8 x 9 inches
- ISBN-101621574512
- ISBN-13978-1621574514
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—Dr. Rick Warren, Author of The Purpose Driven Life and Pastor of Saddleback Church
"We live at a privileged moment: a time for what Bonhoeffer called costly grace; a time for Christians to bear witness to the truth in the public square. Ryan Anderson has been doing this courageously for several years now. His new book, Truth Overruled: The Future of Marriage and Religious Freedom, is vital reading for anyone seeking to defend the goodness that remains in our nation, and our rights to live in accord with the truth."
—Charles J. Chaput, O.F.M. Cap., Archbishop of Philadelphia
"It takes great courage and extraordinary eloquence to effectively defend the truth about marriage in the public square today, and Ryan Anderson has both. All Americans who are rightly concerned about the future of marriage and religious liberty are greatly indebted to him for this important book."
—Rabbi Meir Y. Soloveichik, Ph.D., Straus Center for Torah and Western Thought, Yeshiva University
"Ryan Anderson's presence among us at a time such as this—as evidenced most recently by this book—is nothing less than profoundly encouraging and inspiring to all of us who know that our dear country has lost its way. If we can find a path out of our current Slough of Despond, it will be in large part due to winsome heroes like him. Read this book."
—Eric Metaxas, New York Times Bestselling author of Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy
"Novelist Walker Percy said of the abortion rights movement a generation ago: 'You may get your way. But you're going to be told what you're doing.' And ever since Roe v Wade, prolifers have been telling abortionists that abortion stops a beating heart. When it comes to the question of marriage and family, Ryan Anderson is a Walker Percy for a new day. Anderson is the brightest intellectual star in the pro-marriage movement. He seeks to persuade and provoke with reason, logic, and honesty. This book will equip to bear witness to ancient convictions in a strange new world."
—Russell D. Moore, Ph.D., Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission, Southern Baptist Convention
"Ryan Anderson is our nation's most compelling and courageous defender of marriage as the union of husband and wife, and of the rights of people who share that belief to express and act on it in their civic, professional, religious, and personal lives. In Truth Overruled: The Future of Marriage and Religious Freedom he charts the path forward for those of us who refuse to yield to the destruction of marriage and who will not be bullied into acquiescence or silence."
—Robert P. George, McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence, Princeton University
"With the social and legal significance of marriage in debate as never before, and with religious freedom at risk of becoming a second-class right, Ryan Anderson's book could not be more timely. His well-documented analysis of the likely implications of redefining a basic social institution plus his sober forecast of coming inroads on freedom of conscience and religion should give pause to all but the most hardened ideologues. At the same time, his roadmap for fortifying the rights of conscience while rebuilding a culture of marriage will provide
encouragement to all who are concerned about America’s moral ecology.
—Mary Ann Glendon, Learned Hand Professor of Law, Harvard University
From the Author
I draw on the best of philosophy and social science to explain what marriage is, why it matters for public policy, and the consequences of its legal redefinition.
I also explain why the Court's ruling is a significant setback for all Americans who believe in the Constitution, the rule of law, democratic self-government, and marriage as the union of one man and one woman. The U.S. Supreme Court got it wrong: It should not have mandated all 50 states to redefine marriage. Its ruling is pure judicial activism.
Already we are seeing attacks on religious liberty--predicated on the bogus equation of opposition to same-sex marriage with racism--and modest efforts in Indiana and other states to protect believers' rights have met with hysterics from media and corporate elites. I tell the stories of innocent citizens who have been coerced and penalized by the government, and I offer a strategy to protect the natural right of religious liberty.
I also report on the latest research on same-sex parenting, filling it out with the testimony of children raised by gays and lesbians. I conclude with a comprehensive roadmap on how to rebuild a culture of marriage, with work to be done by everyone.
After hundreds of lectures at law schools and college campuses and dozens of TV interviews, I think I've written a must-read manual on where to go from here. There are reasonable and compelling arguments for the truth about marriage, but too many of our neighbors haven't heard them. Truth is never on "the wrong side of history," but we have to make the case. We will decide which side of history we are on.
From the Back Cover
Dr. Rick Warren
Author of The Purpose Driven Life
Pastor of Saddleback Church
Ryan Anderson is our nation's most compelling and courageous defender of marriage as the union of husband and wife, and of the rights of people who share that belief to express and act on it in their civic, professional, religious, and personal lives. In Truth Overruled: The Future of Marriage and Religious Freedom he charts the path forward for those of us who refuse to yield to the destruction of marriage and who will not be bullied into acquiescence or silence.
Robert P. George
McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence
Princeton University
We live at a privileged moment: a time for what Bonhoeffer called costly grace; a time for Christians to bear witness to the truth in the public square. Ryan Anderson has been doing this courageously for several years now. His new book, Truth Overruled: The Future of Marriage and Religious Freedom, is vital reading for anyone seeking to defend the goodness that remains in our nation, and our rights to live in accord with the truth.
Charles J. Chaput, O.F.M. Cap.
Archbishop of Philadelphia
It takes great courage and extraordinary eloquence to effectively defend the truth about marriage in the public square today, and Ryan Anderson has both. All Americans who are rightly concerned about the future of marriage and religious liberty are greatly indebted to him for this important book.
Rabbi Meir Y. Soloveichik, Ph.D.
Straus Center for Torah and Western Thought
Yeshiva University
Novelist Walker Percy said of the abortion rights movement a generation ago: "You may get your way. But you're going to be told what you're doing." And ever since Roe v Wade, prolifers have been telling abortionists that abortion stops a beating heart. When it comes to the question of marriage and family, Ryan Anderson is a Walker Percy for a new day. Anderson is the brightest intellectual star in the pro-marriage movement. He seeks to persuade and provoke with reason, logic, and honesty. This book will equip to bear witness to ancient convictions in a strange new world.
Russell D. Moore, Ph.D.
Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission
Southern Baptist Convention
With the social and legal significance of marriage in debate as never before, and with religious freedom at risk of becoming a second-class right, Ryan Anderson's book could not be more timely. His well-documented analysis of the likely implications of redefining a basic social institution plus his sober forecast of coming inroads on freedom of conscience and religion should give pause to all but the most hardened ideologues. At the same time, his roadmap for fortifying the rights of conscience while rebuilding a culture of marriage will provide encouragement to all who are concerned about America's moral ecology.
Mary Ann Glendon
Learned Hand Professor of Law
Harvard University
Ryan Anderson's presence among us at a time such as this--as evidenced most recently by this book--is nothing less than profoundly encouraging and inspiring to all of us who know that our dear country has lost its way. If we can find a path out of our current Slough of Despond, it will be in large part due to winsome heroes like him. Read this book.
Eric Metaxas
New York Times Bestselling author of
Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy
About the Author
His writings have appeared in the New York Times, the Washington Post, the Wall Street Journal, USA Today, the Harvard Journal of Law and Public Policy, First Things, the Weekly Standard, National Review, the New Atlantis, and the Claremont Review of Books.
Anderson has appeared on ABC, CNN, CNBC, MSNBC, and the Fox News Channel. In addition to a memorable 2013 debate about marriage on CNN's Piers Morgan Live, his news interviews include appearances on ABC's This Week with George Stephanopoulos, CNN's New Day with Chris Cuomo, MSNBC's The Ed Show with Ed Schultz, and Fox News' Hannity.
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- Publisher : Regnery
- Publication date : August 31, 2015
- Language : English
- Print length : 256 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1621574512
- ISBN-13 : 978-1621574514
- Item Weight : 11.9 ounces
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.8 x 9 inches
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About the author

Ryan T. Anderson is the President of the Ethics and Public Policy Center, and the Founding Editor of Public Discourse, the online journal of the Witherspoon Institute of Princeton, New Jersey. A Phi Beta Kappa and magna cum laude graduate of Princeton University, he earned his Ph.D. in political philosophy from the University of Notre Dame. Anderson’s research has been cited by two U.S. Supreme Court justices in two Supreme Court cases.
His work has been published by the New York Times, the Washington Post, the Wall Street Journal, Oxford University Press, Cambridge University Press, the Harvard Journal of Law and Public Policy, the Harvard Health Policy Review, the Georgetown Journal of Law and Public Policy, First Things, the Claremont Review of Books, and National Review.
Anderson has appeared on ABC, CNN, CNBC, MSNBC, and the Fox News Channel. In addition to a memorable 2013 debate about marriage on CNN's Piers Morgan Live, his news interviews include appearances on ABC's This Week with George Stephanopoulos, CNN's New Day with Chris Cuomo, MSNBC's The Ed Show with Ed Schultz, and Fox News' Hannity.
Anderson is the John Paul II Teaching Fellow in Social Thought at the University of Dallas, a member of the James Madison Society at Princeton University, and a Fellow of the Institute for Human Ecology at the Catholic University of America.
For 9 years he was the William E. Simon senior research fellow at The Heritage Foundation, and has served as an adjunct professor of philosophy and political science at Christendom College, and a Visiting Fellow at the Veritas Center at Franciscan University. He has also served as an assistant editor of First Things.
Follow him on Twitter: @RyanTAnd For his latest essays and videos, follow his public Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/RyanTAndersonPhD
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- Reviewed in the United States on March 10, 2016Format: KindleVerified PurchaseThe sexual revolution, now culminating in the legalization of same-sex marriage and celebration of transgender declarations, triumphed within a culture devoid of a Natural Law ethos. Though slowly giving way to an evolutionary worldview, wherein there are no established essences to things, the Natural Law (rooted in Aristotle and Cicero, Augustine and Aquinas and America’s Founding Fathers) still provides a rationale for and defense of heterosexual marriage that forever makes sense. Conjoined with an earlier treatise he co-authored with Robert George and Sherif Girgis—What Is Marriage? Man and Woman: A Defense (New York: Encounter Books, c. 2012)—Ryan T. Anderson’s Truth Overruled: The Future of Marriage and Religious Freedom (Washington, D.C.: Regency Publishing, c. 2015) merits serious study and distribution. “With its decision in Obergefell v. Hodges, the Supreme Court of the United States,” Anderson asserts, “has brought the sexual revolution to its apex—a redefinition of our civilizations’ primordial institution, cutting its link to procreation and declaring sex differences meaningless” (#80). Five unelected, elitist judges have rashly claimed the power to trash the most important association known to man! They not only “decided a case incorrectly—it has damaged the common good and harmed our republic” (#1009).
Consequently, folks who dare declare their support for traditional, heterosexual marriage are now pilloried as bigots (akin to racists) committed to immoral forms of sexual discrimination. Christians espousing heterosexual monogamy and everyone who dares condemn sodomy are now instructed “to take homosexuality off the sin list.” Facing the fact that the ground has shifted around us, Christians must, Anderson says, clearly think through how to respond, taking to heart the patience and perspicuity of the pro-life movement. We must, first, identify and reject the judicial activism so evident in both Roe v. Wade and Obergefell v. Hodges. Poor jurisprudence can, and must be, refuted on the highest of intellectual levels. Then we must take steps to preserve our constitutionally guaranteed freedoms “to speak and live according to the truth” (#209).
To do so, Princeton Professor Robert George says: “‘We must, above all, tell the truth: Obergefell v. Hodges is an illegitimate decision. What Stanford Law School Dean John Ely said of Roe v. Wade applies with equal force to Obergefell: “It is not constitutional law and gives almost no sense of an obligation to try to be.” What Justice Byron White said of Roe is also true of Obergefell: “it is an act of ‘raw judicial power.’” The lawlessness of these decisions is evident in the fact that they lack any foundation or warranting the text, logic, structure, or original understanding of the Constitution. The justices responsible for these rulings, whatever their good intentions,are substituting their own views of morality and sound public policy for those of the people and their elected representatives. They have set them selves up as super legislators possessing a kind of plenary power to impose their judgments on the nation. What could be more unconstitutional—more anti-constitutional—than that?’” (#1031). Importantly, Professor George’s strong critique of the Court can be found, in equally emphatic language, in the four justices’ (John Roberts; Antonio Scalia; Samuel Alito; Clarence Thomas) opinions who dissented from Obergefall.
The author’s “goal is to equip everyone, not just the experts, to defend what most of us never imagined we’d have to defend: our rights of conscience, our religious liberty, and the basic building block of civilization—the human family, founded on the marital union of a man and a woman” (#237). “Whatever the law or culture may say, we must commit now to witness to the truth about marriage: that men and women are equal and equally necessary in the lives of children; that men and women, though different, are complementary; that it takes a man and a woman to bring a child into the world. It is not bigotry but compassion and common sense to insist on laws and public policies that maximize the likelihood that children will grow up with a mom and a dad” (#267).
To declare this truth we must first insist that words mean something. Marriage can only describe a conjugal union, the fleshly union of a male and female human being. To accept the Supreme Court’s verdict is to grant its faulty “assumption that marriage is a genderless institution” (#288), nothing more than an agreement between persons to enjoy some sort of emotionally rewarding relationship. The Court’s position was, of course, largely set in place by the sexual revolutionaries who promoted cohabitation, no-fault divorce, single parenting, and the hook-up culture dramatically evident on university campuses.
Still more, as a conjugal union marriage is designed for and ordered to procreation, a fact vociferously denied by sexual revolutionaries. In the marital act two become one flesh. It’s not an etherial, spiritual bond between “loving” persons but an intensely physical act, uniting a man and woman in a thoroughly “comprehensive” manner. Note, Anderson says, this “parallel: The muscles, heart, lungs, stomach and intestines of an individual human body cooperate with each other toward a single biological end—the continued life of that body. In the same way, a man and a woman, when they unite in the marital act, cooperate toward a single biological end—procreation” (#407). Bringing children into the world entails forging intact families suitable for their rearing. “Marriage is based on the anthropological truth that men and women are complementary, the biological fact that reproduction depends on a man and a woman, and the social reality that children deserve a mother and a father” (#470).
To redefine marriage in accord with the sexual revolution charts a dire course for our future, says Anderson: “The needs and rights of children will be subordinated to the desires of adults. The marital norms of monogamy, exclusivity, and permanence will be weakened. Unborn children will be put at even more risk than they already are. And religious liberty—Americans’ ‘first freedom’—will be threatened” (#692). We already see the harms done by single parenting, whereby children suffer on almost every score—increased poverty, abuse, delinquency, substance addictions, dysfunctional relationships. So too a “study undertaken by sociologist Mark Regnerus of the University of Texas demonstrated the negative impacts among children being raised in the context of a same-sex home” (#1509).
And there’s more to come as proponents of erotic rights envision moving beyond same-sex marriage to “legally recognizing sexual relationships involving more than two partners” (#765). The California legislature recently passed a bill allowing a child to have three legal parents. Though the governor vetoed it, such legislation will quickly cascade from similar chambers in the wake of the Supreme Court’s recent decision. Yet other theorists propose temporary marriage licenses—leasing a spouse, much as you lease a house, for as long as he or she suits you. Once marriage has been reduced to a “lifestyle option” valued primarily for its benefits to autonomous adults, little remains to that most essential “little platoon,” the family. And precisely that, for the sexual revolutionaries, has been the purpose all along. As Michael Lehrner and the Weathermen said, “smash monogamy.” It all fits nicely into the agenda of Marx and Engels, who placed the abolition of families high on their list in order to create a pure, socialist society.
Turning to the question of what we can now do, Anderson leads us back to the carefully-wrought, timelessly true theological position of the Christian Church. The creation account in Genesis provides a wonderful prescription whereby a man and a woman form a divinely-ordained covenant best illustrated in “God’s own covenant-making love in Jesus Christ” (#1670). This new covenant of grace reaffirms the old covenant, with its rules regarding sex and marriage. “Sex, gender, marriage, and family all come together in the first chapters of Scripture in order to make clear that every aspect of our sexual lives is to submit to the creative purpose of God and be channeled into the exclusive arena of human sexual behavior—marriage—defined clearly and exclusively as the lifelong, monogamous union of a man and a woman” (#1739).
Today, of course, there are revisionist thinkers within the religious world who explain away the clear words of Scripture and insist the modern world requires a new morality better attuned to its desires. In their view, convictions rooted an antiquity have no more value that pre-scientific notions regarding astronomy or immunology. To such thinkers—and the many churches embracing their views—orthodox believers “must speak a word of compassionate truth. And that compassionate truth is this: homosexual acts are expressly and unconditionally forbidden by God through his Word, and such acts are an abomination to the Lord by his own declaration” (#1778). Strong words! But compassion need not walk weakly, extending approval to everyone in every situation! Without a mental toughness, we will fail to resist the sledge hammer blows now bludgeoning traditional marriage.
Similarly, we dare not stand aside (under the auspices of kindness and tolerance) while this nation’s religious liberties are attacked. Revolutionaries of all sorts, sexual revolutionaries included, know they must establish their ideologies in a people’s legal structures. No one thinking clearly about America’s recent history can avoid concluding that Christians who dare deviate from the erotic revolution’s dictates will be punished. Given the decades-long shift to administrative law courts (invisible to many of us), people are increasingly fined for failing to measure up to the precepts of sexual “equality” or mouthing “hate speech.” So florists and bakers and photographers refusing to participate in gay weddings have been found guilty and harshly fined for their conscience-bound commitment to traditional marriage. “Erotic liberty” outweighs religious liberty and threatens to entirely subvert it.
Rightly read, Truth Overruled and We Cannot Not Be Silent should prompt us to share their truths and support their proposals if we care for our families, churches, and a good society.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 5, 2015Format: KindleVerified PurchaseMr. Anderson presents a multi-faceted case for why legal recognition of same-sex unions is detrimental to society and shows why this subversion of law in service of a modern ideological agenda is not at all the same as the abolition of laws prohibiting inter-"racial" marriage. It seems obvious that ethnic descent and skin pigmentation are absolutely irrelevant to the ability to enter into the comprehensive union of mind, soul, and body that constitutes marriage with its essential complementarity of male and female ordered to the procreation of offspring, whereas an absolutely necessary factor is missing in same-gender unions according to the definition of marriage that had been universally accepted by humanity until a couple of decades ago. It is appalling that on this issue as with others in our decadent, morally corrupt era, too many people are arrogant enough to think that they can change the very essences of things through sheer domination of will, which sometimes entails the cooperation of ethically dubious advances in technology (such as artificial fertilization or trans-gender surgery or genetically altered foods).
The fact that infertile (but not impotent) couples could always contract a valid marriage in human history, but same-sex couples could not do so, is in no way an inconsistency amounting to invidious discrimination, because the root potential is always there for an opposite-sex couple: they possess the basic equipment for such bodily union oriented toward the telos of children, even if the actual achievement of that goal were impeded due to medical factors beyond their control; and if their reproductive systems could be restored to normal functioning (or rejuvenated in the case of elderly couples), their intimate acts could once again have the opportunity to issue in offspring. None of this applies to same-gender unions, whose partners do not even have the remote natural potential for a fertile physical embrace of persons in both their biological and psychological dimensions, no matter how subjectively loving they perceive themselves toward each other and toward exogenous children.
Another key point for me in Anderson's brilliant book is the inevitable attack on religious liberty that this evil SCOTUS ruling will provoke (as warned by the four dissenting justices in the Obergefell decision). The hypocrisy of it is galling, because a movement that began with an ostensive laissez-faire plea for tolerance will now be transmogrified into an utterly intolerant (yes, BIGOTED) juggernaut of persecution against those who will not submit to the prevailing secularist climate of left-wing political correctness, which in its dogmatically relativist dictatorship far surpasses the malign influence of whatever sexual permissiveness may have been present in ancient pagan cultures. According to the case stories proffered by Anderson, the modus operandi of the gay activists is entirely spiteful, because they could just as easily seek services (cakes, flowers, photographs, "wedding" venues) from those willing to accommodate them; but no, instead they target middle-class family businesses and ruin them to make a point, forcing them to shut down and/or pay outrageous fines for merely abiding by the traditional concept of marriage in line with their consciences. This is a totally destructive tyranny, completely contrary to the good of the social order and the solidarity that should prevail among all segments of the human community -- a rupture in the social fabric indicative of the non-righteousness of the cause of making society at large over into a perversion-affirming club, subservient to the wishes and commands of the militant "gay" activists.
None of this is to countenance the "bashing" of "gays" as people. I am very sympathetic to the plight of people with SSA, who number among my friends and extended family members (cousins), and I completely agree with Melinda Selmys's nuanced discussions in her book "Sexual Authenticity", but I also support the reparative therapy research and practice of experts such as Leanne Payne, Elizabeth Moberly, John Harvey, Gerald van den Aardweg, Joseph Nicolosi, Richard Fitzgibbons, etc. It seems to me that the radical "gay" activists are suffering, along with the gender confusion that was not deliberately chosen and for which they are not culpable, a tremendous amount of anger on account of their plight. But this legitimate grief does not excuse their vengeful war directed at society in general by attempting to march through our institutions, twist the natures of things (were it possible), and thus undermine the polis to the point of persecution of those who do not agree with their metaphysical perspective in which human emotions have been elevated to a pseudo-divine status. Stepping back from this latest battle in the catastrophic sexual revolution, they should take a broader perspective, dispassionately considering what might be the profound rationale for mankind's virtually universal stance on the essence of marriage.
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- David J. HoustonReviewed in Canada on July 20, 2015
5.0 out of 5 stars Do not read this book if you break out in hives upon hearing views other than your own cogently defended.
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseRyan T. Anderson is an intelligent, winsome, and irenic defender of the conjugal view of marriage and religious freedom. He is also a far more patient man than I. I have seen him appear on various programs defending conservative positions where his debate partner (often the host!) has spoken to him in such an arrogant, rude, and condescending manner that even those of us who remain obstinately in favour of the right to freedom of speech have been sorely tempted to make an exception in the case of such "tolerant" people. I do not, of course, mean that they are "tolerant" in the classical sense of possessing a willingness to tolerate those who express ideas one disagrees with. No, I meant it in its contemporary usage, in which a person is said to be "tolerant" if they believe in a positive right to bludgeon into silence anyone holding to any belief one deems in any way offensive. I have learned much from Dr. Anderson's discussion of marriage and religious freedom and will be recommending this book to anyone with the courage to be challenged and the willingness to give controversial positions a fair hearing. I can only hope they won't be put off by the flurry of one-star ratings coming from those who would silence any and all opposing views no matter how reasonably or courteously expressed.
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sunshineReviewed in Germany on July 31, 2015
5.0 out of 5 stars extrem gut recherchiert Ein Muss!
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseJeder, den das Thema Ehe beschäftigt, sollte dieses solide Werk von Ryan T Anderson lesen. Extrem sauber recherchiert und dokumentiert.
Alle Achtung! Besonders in dieser Zeit, wo wir überrannt werden von einer Ideologie, die keine andere Meinung neben sich mehr duldet, ist es hilfreich mit diesem Buch einen Schritt zurück zu gehen und anzufangen nachzudenken.
- Mrs. C. HarrisReviewed in the United Kingdom on August 6, 2015
5.0 out of 5 stars The troll attack encouraged me to buy and read this book.
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseI heard about the troll attack on this book, and that was why I bought it, to see for myself. I found it an easy read that covered all the important areas of this debate. It gives a sensible defense of traditional marriage, without demonizing people on the other side of the issue. Worth the money and worth reading. Excellent.
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Héctor Guillermo MuñozReviewed in Mexico on April 13, 2018
5.0 out of 5 stars El libro que desearía haber leído antes
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseUno de los temas que siempre había considerado más difíciles de abordar era sin duda el de las uniones del mismo sexo. Este libro tiene una poderosísima argumentación, una excelente documentación y no deja nada a deber. Indispensable para cualquier creyente que tiene dificultad con entender estos temas. El libro abre los ojos para ver un caso muy poderoso para la visión conyugal del matrimonio y las dificultades que redefinirlo representa. Es un lingote de oro puro, sobretodo en esta época en en que la narrativa popular se trata solamente de argumentar desde la perspectiva religiosa. El autor utiliza argumentos jurídicos, sociológicos, filosóficos, históricos, entre otros; para demostrar sus puntos e indicar de qué manera se puede mejor responder para restaurar la cultura del matrimonio y la familia.
- FatMarwoodReviewed in Australia on November 5, 2016
5.0 out of 5 stars Logical discussion of an emotionally charged topic
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseSome great points which help to clarify the side of the argument which is usually tagged as simple, backwards and illogical