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The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams: Planning Together for Less Stress and More Joy Paperback – November 4, 2005
- Print length231 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherNew World Library
- Publication dateNovember 4, 2005
- Dimensions5.75 x 1 x 8.75 inches
- ISBN-101577313410
- ISBN-13978-1577313410
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From 'Popping the Questions' to 'The Honeymoon' and everything in between, this book covers it all! It arrived just in time for our son and future daughter-in-law to plan the wedding of their dreams!" - Charlie Bloom, co-author of 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married
"I read the book in one sitting. When I finished, I jumped in my car to take it to my son's house, so he and his fiancée wouldn't go one more day of their wedding planning without this heart-felt, practical guide." - Linda Bloom, co-author of 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married
"This book is a joy to read from cover to cover. Every bride AND groom needs to read it so they can enjoy planning their wedding while also building the basis for the success of their future marriage." - Susan Jeffers, PhD, author of Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway and The Feel the Fear Guide to Lasting Love
"This is a beautiful and sensible book. Drs. Judith and Jim have outlined a remarkable blueprint that will save couples a lot of time and money. The spiritual principles will help them to create deeper intimacy as they transition from 'twoness' to 'oneness.'" - Dr. Grace Cornish, bestselling author of The Sacred Bond: 7 Spiritual Truths to Recognize and Marry Your Very Own Soul Mate, Drcornish.com
"This practical, helpful book guides couples through perhaps the most important event of their lives to date, and makes the experience more joyful then imagined." - Brian Tracy, author of Your Own Future
"This absolutely great book is a fascinating, readable, and wise blend of romance and practicality! Judith and Jim give just the right guidance and support for couples planning a marriage - or for that matter - planning a life together. From the earliest considerations of engagement to the end of the honeymoon, this book is an amazing gift to those couples who want to make their marriage and their lives reflect their souls." - Sidra Stone, PhD, and Hal Stone, PhD, co-creators of Voice Dialogue and authors of Partnering: A New Kind of Relationship and Embracing Our Selves
"Practical, prescient, precious. Judith and Jim have created a wedding masterpiece!" - Pat Love, EdD, author, The Truth about Love
"Utilizing real couples' stories and their own rich experiences, Judith and Jim brilliantly lead you through the rocky terrain of getting married; from pre-engagement considerations to the wedding day and beyond. Throughout, they act as the little voice in your head gently urging you to be true to yourself by planning a ceremony that will genuinely reflect the bond between you and your beloved. I will, without hesitation, recommend this book to all my nervous brides-to-be." -Farah Husain, bridal makeup artist
"The wedding market is flooded with 'how to' books - planners that all say essentially the same thing. Finally, here is a new, different, and interesting approach. This is a book for the modern couple, reflecting a growing trend for the groom's involvement. It recognizes that wedding planning today can be - should be - the beginning of a life together." - Gerard J. Monaghan, president, Association of Bridal Consultants
"Too often, men are encouraged to leave the wedding planning to their fiancées - with the result that their weddings and their marriages suffer. From a refreshing and very inspiring point of view, Judith and Jim reveal why it's essential for the bride and groom to plan their wedding together. This book establishes the template for weddings of the future." - Melissa Wilt, public policy analyst, Men's Health Network, Washington, DC
"As a wedding gown designer whose main concern is that the bride receive maximum value, I applaud Judith and Jim's practical, enthusiastic guide showing the wedding couple how to maximize the value and meaning of every aspect of their journey into marriage. This is a must read for every bride and groom and all the people who love them." - Madeline Gardner, designer of bridal gowns, Mori Lee LLC
"In my nineteen years as a wedding photographer, I've seen too many brides miss out on the spiritual and romantic magic that a wedding should be about. So, I am thrilled to recommend this book because it can rescue all future brides from making the same mistake. This book is destined to become the bible for creating truly fabulous and deeply meaningful weddings." - Wilson Pinilla, president and CEO, Pinilla Photography and Video Inc.
"This book is hard to put down! Filled with invaluable information, it's everything a couple needs to plan their wedding and their life together." -Richard Markel, president, Association for Wedding Professionals International and founder, Bridal Show Producers International
"If only one person makes all of the decisions about the wedding, it stands to reason that that person will be burdened with making most of the decisions in the marriage. Judith and Jim give couples the tools to discover what matters most to them for their ceremony and its various celebrations opening the door to rich communication, which is the basis for a strong marriage." - Julia Markel, vice-president, Association for Wedding Professionals International
About the Author
Internationally famous for our ability to dig deep into the heart of what holds people back while providing the recipe for permanent release from that internal prison, we have created a blueprint for learning about the power of Unconscious Allegiances and Forbiddances. Since most people cannot access our private consultation and coaching, we've produced our "Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous(tm)" program to enable the user to shatter the blindness that holds people back, guiding them through the necessary steps to releasing their hold backs and roadblocks to successful living and loving. OvercomingTheFearOfBeingFabulous.com
At this time, we are executive coaches and leadership trainers and consultants to a variety of businesses and corporations including being on retainer to LinkedIn.
As guest experts we've been on over 2700 television and radio shows including Oprah, The View, 48 Hours, CNN, and Canada AM. And we've been interviewed or published by hundreds of major publications including the Los Angeles Times, Chicago Tribune, USA Today, Boston Globe, Wall Street Journal, O, Cosmo, Bridal Guide, Redbook, Playboy, Essence, Women's Day, Family Circle, Parents, Brides, Men's Health, Best Life, and Today's Black Woman.
Meeting on a blind date March 7, 1987, they married 13 months later, and currently live in Northern California.
Product details
- Publisher : New World Library
- Publication date : November 4, 2005
- Language : English
- Print length : 231 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1577313410
- ISBN-13 : 978-1577313410
- Item Weight : 9.6 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.75 x 1 x 8.75 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #7,150 in Weddings (Books)
- #31,405 in Love & Romance (Books)
- #31,823 in Marriage
- Customer Reviews:
About the authors
Judith Sherven, PhD is a best-selling, award-winning author, clinical psychologist and executive coach, and earlier in her life she was a professional model and actress co-starring in episodes of “Star Trek“ (original season), “Ozzie and Harriett,” “My Three Sons,” “Wild Wild West,“ “I Dream of Jeannie” and many others.
Now, with her husband – and best known as Judith & Jim – they are husband-and-wife psychology team Judith Sherven, PhD and Jim Sniechowski, PhD – best-selling and award-winning authors of nine books, including their latest - the non-fiction WINNER of the 2023 San Francisco Book Festival – “Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous: 33 Keys to Creating Your New Life by Leaving Your Old Stories Behind”!
In “What Really Killed Whitney Houston” they help readers understand how the power of unconscious forces drive much of what we do and what holds us back. Judith & Jim are passionate champions for your freedom to live a truly free and fabulous life in any way you desire.
Internationally famous for their ability to dig deep into the heart of what holds people back while providing the recipe for permanent release from that internal prison, J & J have created a blueprint for learning about the power of Unconscious Allegiances and Forbiddances. Since most people cannot access our private consultation and coaching, they have produced their “Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous(tm)” audio program to enable the user to shatter the blindness that holds people back, guiding them through the necessary steps to releasing their hold backs and roadblocks to successful living and loving. Http://OvercomingTheFearOfBeingFabulous.com/workshop
As an executive coaching team and leadership trainers J & J are consultants to a variety of corporations including LinkedIn, Unity Technologies, Credit Karma, and others.
As guest experts, J & J have been on over 3000 television and radio shows including Oprah, The View, 48 Hours, CNN, and Canada AM. And have been interviewed or published by hundreds of major publications including the Los Angeles Times, Chicago Tribune, USA Today, Boston Globe, Wall Street Journal, O, Cosmo, Bridal Guide, Redbook, Playboy, Essence, Women’s Day, Family Circle, Parents, Brides, Men’s Health, Best Life, and Today’s Black Woman.
Meeting on a blind date March 7, 1987, they married 13 months later, and currently live in Northern California.
Award-winning Author Jim Sniechowski was born and raised in a Catholic, working-class family in a tough Polish enclave (some called it a ghetto) in southwest Detroit. His grandparents arrived in Detroit from the fields and farms of Eastern Poland remaining true to a medieval sense of religiosity with its strict demand of obedience and the peasant's lifestyle.
From boyhood on Jim struggled with his growing awareness of the brutality Old World Catholicism imposed on him and everyone in his community, the lower class life they were compelled to live, including the alcohol they consumed to dull the pain they endured, and the reproach they suffered should anyone consider resisting or, even worse, leaving.
Jim, nevertheless, resisted and he was continually kept on the "to be watched" list by the nuns and priests at Our Lady Queen of Angels, his parish and elementary school. His rebellion went full force during his early teens when he joined the Royal Lancers, a local street gang.
After graduating from The University of Detroit High School, a Jesuit based college prep school, he attended the University of Detroit where he discovered the theater. After receiving rave reviews for his role as The Gentleman Caller in Tennessee Williams’ The Glass Menagerie he was off to New York to study at The Neighborhood Playhouse and then on to a fifteen year career as a stage actor. Jim's deep interest in character led him to a PhD in Philosophy and Psychology and now to writing novels.
All books in Jim’s Leaving Home Trilogy -- Worship of Hollow Gods, An Ambition to Belong, and When Angels Die -- are Amazon #1 Bestsellers and have each won a variety of international book awards. In his trilogy Jim’s focus is the infusion of early life impressions and experiences that create a mindset and lifestyle unconsciously framed and driven, gripping and holding anyone without them knowing how or why. To mature into a self-possessed and fulfilling life the unconscious bonds that make up the base of our initial child personality must be broken, left behind, freeing us to grow into the adult conscious character by which we conduct the rest of our life.
In addition to his trilogy, in Jim’s most recent book, Second Life: Because the First One is Not Yet Finished, he has created a riveting reincarnational romance, telling the story of a couple during Catholic Inquisition of the middle ages in 1505 who fall in love and then in 2005 are reincarnated to meet again and re-discover their deep connection!
Jim’s writing has been proclaimed as “outstanding” and his story-telling “riveting”!
Jim's deepest desire is for his readers to experience the real world identity struggles of his characters, and be moved to examine their own internal driving forces for the betterment of the life they are creating every day.
Jim lives with his wife Judith Sherven in Northern California.
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- Reviewed in the United States on November 9, 2006I'm in my 40s and getting married for the first--and only--time in a few months. My fiance was feeling a little left out of the planning process, so I bought 2 copies of this book, one for him and one for myself. It's been a great discussion tool, and we've both made lots of notes all over the pages. The book covers the details of wedding planning but with a focus on keeping the relationship and the meaning of the celebration central. No matter what other planning guides you own -- and you will need others that do go bananas over flowers and bridesmaids' dresses if that's your thing, and God knows there are plenty of them out there-- please pick up a copy, or two, of this one. It lets you convert the stress and commericalism of planning your wedding into a relationship-deepening experience.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 27, 2011I purchased this book as part of my "wedding planning book binge," and while it raises some valid points, I also felt like some of it was overbearing. The suggestions for discussions of finances and whether or not a woman should change her name was thought provoking. However, sometimes the authors' own views overwhelm a person's ability to design their own wedding to suit them. For instance, the author describes the silly tradition of feeding each other cake (occasionally forcefully) as "abusive" and makes a blanket statement that it shouldn't be done. Also, they seem to have the position that they had a relatively ideal wedding, though it isn't one-size-fits all. Not a bad purchase, but not my favorite text.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 30, 2010This book is extremely specific when it comes to planning. I assumed it would be largely focused on the couple and how to reduce stress, but it actually provided real ideas for planning as well. I read it in two days and will most likely go back and keep referencing it throughout my planning process.
- Reviewed in the United States on July 8, 2010I am engaged and reading everything I can about wedding planning. Your book, The Smart Couples Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams is the best I have found--hands down! In fact, I am reading it for the second time in 6 months. I can always learn something new with each reading. I love the fact that, in this book, there is lots of focus on preparing for marriage. Judith and Jim do a clever job of weaving the wedding planning into the importance of thinking ahead to the marriage itself. It's refreshing to see after all the books that deal with wedding plans only. Very thoughtfully and lovingly written and I will go back to it often as I get ready for my own wedding.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 9, 2008This was not the book for me. Although I could see other readers enjoying it, I did not find the book very practical. Nor did I agree with some of the suggestions. For instance, I felt that the writers glossed over the concept of wedding favors. They advised not to do them. I would have preferred suggestions on different types of favors that are cost-effective.
It's not a bad book but I did not find it very useful for my needs. I am leaning towards a more traditional wedding and I needed help on details concerning planning. I preferred Joyce Scardina Becker's "Countdown to Your Personal Wedding". Her book is a different type, however, more oriented towards planning and instructions on how to go about wedding planning and information on procedures (i.e what items a seamstress should be looking at during wedding dress fittings).
If you get the Smart Couple's Guide to...I advise that you also buy a book that is geared towards the details of planning a wedding. Unless you are an extremely organized and knowledgeable person when it comes to weddings. As interesting as it is to read, I wouldn't go it alone with the Smart Couple's Guide. I appreciated Ms. Becker's expertise in wedding planning and organization and turned to it more than I turned to the Smart Couple's Guide. I do reiterate that they are two different types of books. I hope that helps.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 23, 2013This was an incredible book. Kept us grounded in our own vision of our relationship and the wedding celebration. Have gifted this to two other engaged couples and they tend to agree! It can get a bit saccharine at points, but overall THE BEST book I read in preparation for my wedding ceremony and reception.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 5, 2013A wonderful way to plan for what you truly want for your special day not what others think you should have. I gave this to my niece for her wedding.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 24, 2014This was the best wedding-planning book we looked at.