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The Cinderella Rule: A Young Woman's Guide to Happily Ever After Paperback – January 1, 2013
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Of all the fairytale princesses we know and love, Cinderella is the one who got it right. She knew the spell was about to break, and ran out of the castle just in time to keep her mysterious identity a secret. Prince Charming couldnt help himself! He had to pursue her, to track her down and invite her to be his queen. The Cinderella Ruleis your guide to letting your prince do the work. Whether he knows it or not, the man God has for you longs to experience the thrill of the chase . . . and that means running out of the castle before you give away all your secrets! Find out how to be a woman of mystery who lets herself be pursued, knowing you are worth every ounce of effort.The Cinderella Rule will show you how to be the queen your prince is already looking for.
- Print length204 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBaker Pub Group
- Publication dateJanuary 1, 2013
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.5 x 8.5 inches
- ISBN-100830766162
- ISBN-13978-0830766161
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Stop Looking for Prince CharmingLet Him Look for You
Of all the fairytale princesses we know and love, Cinderella is the one who got it right. She knew the spell was about to break, and ran out of the castle just in time to keep her mysterious identity a secret. Prince Charming couldn t help himself! He had to pursue her, to track her down and invite her to be his queen. The Cinderella Ruleis your guide to letting your prince do the work. Whether he knows it or not, the man God has for you longs to experience the thrill of the chase . . . and that means running out of the castle before you give away all your secrets! Find out how to be a woman of mystery who lets herself be pursued, knowing you are worth every ounce of effort.The Cinderella Rule will show you how to be the queen your prince is already looking for.
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- Publisher : Baker Pub Group
- Publication date : January 1, 2013
- Language : English
- Print length : 204 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0830766162
- ISBN-13 : 978-0830766161
- Item Weight : 7.1 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.5 x 8.5 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #3,122 in Christian Family & Relationships
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Bethany is determined to keep her priorities in line: God, Family, Career, which is often an un-balanced juggling act of extremes on her quest to #LiveBrilliant. She is a proud military spouse, homeschool momma-of-boys, suspense-novel junkie who describes herself as “mid-maintenance” and loves cute shoes and all things girly.
She is an award-winning author and award-winning ghostwriter, along with co-owning two companies in the writing and publishing realm: Serious Writer, Inc and Platinum Literary Services. In 2020, Bethany will walk the stage to receive her diploma for her Masters of Fine Arts degree in Communications where she is specializing in public relations and marketing.
Bethany speaks across the country at conferences, retreats, moms' groups, youth groups, women's events, and writers conferences and would love to be your next keynote presenter or workshop leader.
Connect with her at BethanyJett.com.
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Customers find this book to be worth the time and appreciate its good advice for girls. Moreover, the writing style receives positive feedback, with one customer noting the author's down-to-earth and fun approach. Additionally, they like the storyline, with one review describing it as a beautiful love story.
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Customers find the book worth the time and consider it an amazing work by a gifted author, with one customer noting it's a priceless tool for parents.
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- Reviewed in the United States on March 6, 2015This was a life changer for me. Every school should have copies of this for the girls so they know how to navigate dating! A "boy" version should be written, so the boys know how to pursue with excellence, not try to get away with was much as they can, in ignorance. The best book i ever read in my life on the subject of dating and being pursued. Bethany is the most gifted youth group leader for women, and a world changer!!! She is like the cute young woman version of Jimmy Evans!!! If i was Bill Gates, I would buy crates and crates of these, and put them in every school and university and all the wonderful places young people gather, because it teaches a girl how to do the dance, how to be pursued by the man she fancies. It is not full of ridiculous stories of not kissing the man till you're married, which isn't very likely, but it leaves the girl knowing she is the PRIZE to be pursued, and she knows a genuine desirable man--hes pursuing her--so she can be happy as the pursuit ensues!! I can tell you how much peace this book gave me, 'cause now i know how to do the dance of romance!
- Reviewed in the United States on June 27, 2016To be honest, the title was not what attracted me (I thought it was kinda corny), it was the table of contents. This book was so good. It opened my eyes to how little I valued myself. While I've never been in a relationship before, I had often found myself being the relational aggressor and pursuing guys in subtle ways in the hopes that they would see me as worthy. Reading this book solidified the truth in my heart. It's not my job to prove my worth to men. I am worthy, valued, beautiful and precious because God has called me so. The man that will one day be my husband will see that! In the meantime, it is my job to be awesome, to follow the will of God for my life and enjoy this season of singleness! I loved how transparent she is about the choices she made in her relationship with her boyfriend who is now husband. I laughed, swooned and squealed as she spoke about the ways in which her husband pursued her. This book reminded me of how valuable I am, and how I don't need to lower my expectations when it comes to a guy pursuing me. I am valuable, I am beautiful and I am worth being pursued. I will except nothing less. This is not arrogance, nor is it conceit. It is confidence. Knowing who I am to God ensures that I will not cheapen myself in the quest for love. I recommend this book to not just teenage girls (although that seems to be the target audience), but also young women my age (I'm 23) and even mothers and older women who frequently interact with teenage girls and young women.
- Reviewed in the United States on June 29, 2016I absolutely love this book!
Although I'm a Christian, I'm outside of the demographic for this because I'm married and in my early thirties. However, I met the author at a writers conference, and I was drawn to her contagious joy and her sincerity. I would read anything she writes because I know she has such a heart for young women.
The main theme of this book is that, from a relationship standpoint, God designed women to be pursued, and men are designed to do the pursuing. I really appreciate her statement that if we pursue men and "get" them, then we'll always wonder if they really wanted us or if they settled. This isn't just counter-cultural, it's almost blasphemous in today's society. But the author backs up her statements with Scriptures, her experience ministering to young ladies, and her own beautiful love story.
Unlike a lot of other books, this isn't about promoting a conservative agenda; it's about understanding God's will for our lives and learning how to honor Him regardless of our marital status. I was divorced at a young age, and I can't help but wonder if this book could have steered me in a different direction had I read it in middle school.
If you're a teenager or single adult, I encourage you to read this book! If you have young girls at home, you can read it together and go through through the Study Guide in the back. Either way, you'll find this book encouraging, thought-provoking, and potentially life changing.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 29, 2015As a teenager, I often find myself around other relationships. Often, those relationships are not great examples of how relationships should be. This book is a great reminder to the Christian young ladies of how to make a relationship that is God-based, truly love-based, and hopefully a "Happily Ever After." Although I don't agree with all of Bethany's opinions, I think every Christian girl will definitely benefit from reading this book. Like any book/movie/media we put into our heads, we just have to make sure to take things with a grain of salt and ask God to show us what is right for us.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 9, 2013I am one who avoids reading at all costs. I could not put this down. There are so many wonderful thoughts, ideas, stories, and life lessons in this book. The best part about all of it is that Bethany Jett talks to you like the person you are. She doesn't write in a way that you may or may not understand, and she doesn't treat you like a child. Bethany treats you like a friend, more so like a best friend. As you read, it is as though you are in a conversation with a dear old friend that you don't want to speak during in fear that it will bring the conversation to an end. I was saddened when it ended, but so pleased with what I read. I will definitely be buying a physical copy of this for my bookshelf that I can keep going back to as well as one to share. Seriously, it's worth the time, money, and investment. Just read the first chapter and you will be hooked. I know I was.